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It's hard following the footsteps of your mother, especially if that woman is Pulitzer Prize-winning author
Alice Walker.
For 40 year-old author,
Rebecca Walker, having a famous mother has been anything but easy and she's opening up about just how her difficult life was.
"I very nearly missed out on becoming a mother - thanks to being brought up by a rabid feminist who thought motherhood was about the worst thing that could happen to a woman," she revealed to British newspaper Daily Mail.
"My mom taught me that children enslave women," she continued. "I grew up believing that children are millstones around your neck, and the idea that motherhood can make you blissfully happy is a complete fairytale."
These days, the Yale graduate (born
Rebecca Leventhal) is the proud mother of a three and a half year-old son named
Tenzin with her partner,
Glen. Yet, she holds 'The Color Purple' novelist responsible for much of her hardships growing up and is working hard at being a totally different type of mother.
"Ironically, my mother regards herself as a hugely maternal woman. Believing that women are suppressed, she has campaigned for their rights around the world," she noted.
"But, while she has taken care of daughters all over the world and is hugely revered for her public work and service, my childhood tells a very different story. I came very low down in her priorities - after work, political integrity, self-fulfillment, friendships, spiritual life, fame and travel."
Following in her mother's footsteps, the biracial Mississippi native devoted a great deal of her life dedicated to upholding feminist principles.
She co-founded a non-profit to encourage activism in young women called Third Wave Foundation and was recognized for her work signing up tens of thousands of young female voters by The National Association of University Women, the National Organization for Women and the League of Women Voters, respectively.
After that, she was a contributing editor to several notable publications including Essence, Ms., Glamour, Interview, Vibe and Mademoiselle to name a few. Time magazine even chose her as one of its 50 Future Leaders of America.
For her mother, aside from writing the seminal novel which spawned a classic film and hit Broadways musical of the same name, the Georgia native has published poetry, novels and non-fiction works, in addition to being honored with The Radcliffe Institute Fellowship, the Merrill Fellowship, and a Guggenheim Fellowship.
Their personal lives mirror each other too; For years Rebecca dated alternative-rock-soul singer
Meshell Ndegeocello, while her 66 year-old mother was rumored to be romantically involved wtih singer-songwriter
Tracy Chapman.
Still, the daughter believes her mother was selfish taking off in her teenager years for a two month jaunt to Greece and leaving her with relatives and earlier in her childhood forbidding her from playing with dolls.
"A good mother is attentive, sets boundaries and makes the world safe for her child. But my mother did none of those things."
"I was 16 when I found a now-famous poem she wrote comparing me to various calamities that struck and impeded the lives of other women writers," Walker noted.
According to Rebecca, Alice spoke of how "Virginia Woolf was mentally ill and the Brontes died prematurely," then calling her a "delightful distraction, but a calamity nevertheless." It was something that she said was "a huge shock and very upsetting."
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The two women were estranged after Rebecca's 2000 memoir, 'Black, White and Jewish: Autobiography of a Shifting Self' was released and her mother was unhappy about some of her daughter's reflections in the tome.
Still, their communication did not cease until Rebecca became pregnant with her first child in 2004.
"I was at one of her homes house\-sitting and told her my news and that I'd never been happier, she went very quiet. All she could say was that she was shocked. Then, she asked if I could check on her garden."
An email correspondence followed between the two women after Alice became upset at an interview Rebecca did in which mentioned that her parents did not protect or look out for her and now, according to Rebecca she's been cut out of her mother's will.
"She wrote me a letter saying that our relationship has been inconsequential for years and that she is no longer interested in being my mother," Rebecca noted.
"I have since heard that my mother has cut me out of her will in favor of one of my cousins," she added. "I feel terribly sad - my mother is missing such a great opportunity to be close to her family, but I'm also relieved. Unlike most mothers, mine has never taken any pride in my achievements."
"I've done all I can to be a loyal, loving daughter, but I can no longer have this poisonous relationship destroy my life."
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The (Wayward) Kids of The Rich and Famous
When it comes to the rich and famous, there is never a shortage of headlines to feed the media's appetite. Here is our list of children of the rich and famous who made the news for everything from sex tapes to murder.
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Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Hip-Hop music has churned out some of the sexiest entertainers in the music business, but being hot is more than just skin deep. Sometimes sexiness is in the delivery of a rap line or a sensational sense of style. Here, Blackvoices.com takes a look at some of the sexiest hip-hop stars of all time.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Foxy Brown
When Foxy Brown (real name Inga Marchand) came on the scene in the mid-'90s with her long jet-black hair and curvaceous body, the Brooklyn rapper made the fellas swoon before even launching into one of her signature rhymes. Her sassy, sexy attitude also came across on songs like 'Ain't No Ni**a' with Jay-Z and 'Get Me Home' with Blackstreet.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Nelly
He's the best thing to come out of St. Louis. The former Sean Jean spokesperson, who was until recently romantically involved to R&B singer Ashanti, has the body of a professional athlete. Nelly is known for switching up his clothing style and isn't afraid to wear a suit one day and a pair of Air Force Ones the next.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Lil' Kim
The self-proclaimed "Queen Bitch" not only talked about sex -- explicitly -- on her platinum-plated 1996 debut, 'Hardcore,' but she also proved to be the real deal off wax, too. A protégé of slain rap kingpin The Notorious B.I.G., Kimberly Denise Jones didn't shy away from baring her beautiful body (pre-surgery) in provocative shoots for mainstream magazines, album covers and music videos.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
YoYo
She might have been affiliated with Ice Cube and the West Coast gangsta rap movement, but with YoYo's light-brown eyes and caramel complexion, there's no second-guessing that she's a lady. The Cali native was known for songs about female empowerment and making a case against sexism, but her beauty cast her in a league of her own among so many of her female rap counterparts of the '90s.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Nicki Minaj
In an age when there are few sexy female rappers, Nicki Minaj definitely stands out. The self-proclaimed Barbie entertains the masses with her animated deliverys and dollish figure, complete with a small waist and always-on-display cleavage. The Queens native and Lil' Wayne protégé also isn't shy about autographing the boobs of her adoring fans.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Will Smith
When Will Smith arrived on the music scene with songs like 'Parents Just Don't Understand' and 'Summertime,' he was an awkward, skinny Philly teen. But the Grammy Award-winning rapper successfully transitioned into one of the most successful black Hollywood stars with roles in action flicks such as 'Independence Day' and 'Bad Boys.' Now, he's one of the hunkiest rapper-turned-actors around.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Rakim
Hands down, Rakim is every rapper's favorite rapper. He's influenced the spectrum of hip-hop no matter the geographic region, but the Microphone Fiend, who hails from New York, is also easy on the eyes with his flawless skin and laid-back style.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
Andre 3000
Like Prince, Jimi Hendrix and Bootsy Collins, Outkast rapper Andre 3000's fashion style is anything but safe. At the height of his career, he was rocking loud colors, kilts and Afro wigs, but even then he managed to pull R&B sensation Erykah Badu as his girlfriend and the two had a son, Seven. The 'Hey Ya' rapper opened up his heart on the breakthrough album 'The Love Below' and he continues to tug the heart strings of hip-hop lovers and beyond.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
50 Cent
There's no better way to get the top spot than by coming for the crown of the hottest rapper. That's exactly what 50 Cent did, letting it be known that he was no fan of Ja Rule and at the same time showing off why he is one hunk of a man. The G-Unit general has evolved into a mogul, most notably with his early Vitamin Water acquisition, and still isn't afraid to show off the goods.
Top 30 Sexiest Rappers of All Time
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