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Eric LeGrand Has Regained Sensation!

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Eric LeGrand


Great news
from the banks of the Raritan River.

Injured Rutgers University football player Eric LeGrand has sensation throughout his body giving hope to LeGrand's pledge to walk again.




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Over the past several years, the Rutgers football program has experienced its finest days with winning seasons and bowl victories becoming almost commonplace.

But all those good vibes came to a screeching halt on October 16th, when LeGrand made a tackle on a kickoff return in a game against Army at the New Meadowlands Stadium. The 20-year-old ducked his head when making contact on the play and was left paralyzed from the neck down.


The play devastated the Rutgers campus, according to people I know at the New Brunswick, N.J., campus, and Rutgers alumni (Cook College '85) like me felt like it happened to a family member.


It was easy to understand why the team was dispirited for the rest of the season, losing all six games they played after LeGrand's injury. I would have had trouble even taking the field, after watching a teammate be carted off the field unable to walk hurt playing a child's game.

But now, we all have a reason for hope.

After being originally diagnosed as completely paralyzed, physicians later upgraded LeGrand's condition to "incomplete paralysis." He is also now off a ventilator and can breathe on his own.

It's going to take a lot of hard work, but we have seen other athletes who were believed to have been crippled on the sporting field make full recoveries.

Just look at Buffalo Bills tight end Kevin Everett and Penn State University's corner back Adam Taliaferro - both of whom are walking today after being seriously hurt on the field and thought to be paralyzed.

Walk, Eric LeGrand, walk.

Watch LeGrand's story here:


 



 

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New Leads Unearthed in the Murder of the Notorious B.I.G.

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Notorious B.I.G.

One of the great mysteries of hip-hop lies with the death of the Notorious B.I.G., aka Biggie Smalls aka Christopher Wallace.

Biggie's murder in 1997 put the hip-hop community on hold and opened the door for a new era with regard to regional divisions in music.
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After years of being accused of not telling the entire truth in Biggie's murder, a task force of various local and federal law enforcement officials have now told CNN (see below) that they are actively pursuing leads in the 13-year-old homicide.




One official is stating that the information has "reinvigorated" the case, but that he could not elaborate because of the ongoing investigation.

Wallace was murdered on March 9, 1997, at the age of 24. He was leaving a party held at the Peterson Automotive Museum in Los Angeles.

He'd been warned to stay away from L.A. in large part because some felt that he and/or Puff Daddy aka Diddy (his label boss at the time) may have been connected with the murder of Tupac Shakur just a few months earlier. Suge Knight, the CEO of Death Row Records, lost tens of millions of dollars with Tupac's murder, so hostility was high at the time.

According to police, Wallace was riding in a Suburban when a Chevy Impala drove up next to him with a man opening fire. The suspect has been described as a black man with a suit and bow tie. Some have wondered if members of the L.A. Police Department were involved in helping to arrange the murder, which Biggie's mother, Voletta Wallace, argues was part of the reason why the investigation was thwarted.

Mrs. Wallace and her family filed suit against the Los Angeles Police Department in 2002, alleging that they were covering up vital information in the murder of her son. The case was put on hold last year, after police argued that the case would interfere with renewed efforts to find the killer.

Russell Poole, a retired detective with the Los Angeles Police Department, has consistently argued that members of the LAPD were linked to the murder. He believes that "Suge Knight ordered the hit." He goes on to say that his early retirement occurred after he was consistently blocked in his efforts to uncover evidence linked to LAPD officers who worked for Death Row Records part-time.

"I think I was getting too close to the truth," Poole said. "I think they feared that the truth would be a scandal."

Poole states that one of the officers connected to the murder of Wallace is David Mack, a former officer who was arrested for robbing a bank in the same year that Wallace was killed.

According to Poole, Mack owned a car similar to the one that was used in the murder of Wallace, and the sketch of the shooter resembles one of Mack's friends. Mack is set to be released from prison this year.

With each passing year, it seems that chickens of our past are coming home to roost. Although Biggie died far too young more than 13 years ago, his spirit continues to live within the ranks of hip-hop immortality.

Both Biggie and Tupac are doing duets with today's leading artists, and both of them gave their lives to claim an eternal space that is virtually inaccessible to any living artist today.

Given the tattered history of the Los Angeles Police Department, is it not inconceivable that members of the LAPD were involved in Biggie's murder. Mrs. Wallace's consistent legal challenges to find her son's killer are nothing short of heroic, and I would presume that the recently beefed up investigation is a direct benefit of Mrs. Wallace's unrelenting pressure. I fully expect that within a year, all of the pieces will come together and Biggie's murderer will be behind bars.

It is also ironic that the alleged corruption of the LAPD that may have kept the murder of Biggie from being fully investigated was the subject of one of the most famous songs in gangster rap history.

Since NWA released the protest song, "F*ck the Police," in 1988, we've had the L.A. riots as well as widespread reform on police brutality all across the nation.

So in conjunction with the consistently destructive relationship between modern rappers and the criminal justice system (two or three rappers went to jail this week), there is also enormous potential for significant political progress for conscientious artists willing to take the lead on important issues. Whether it is used for good or evil, hip-hop is a powerful thing.

Dr. Boyce Watkins is the founder of the Your Black World Coalition and a Scholarship in Action Resident of the Institute for Black Public Policy. To have Dr. Boyce commentary delivered to your email, please click here.

 

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The NYC Sanitation Union & Snow Removal Problems: Is It Fair to Be Mad at Cheated Workers?

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New York City Snow Storm
As snow falls once again in New York City, I can't help but be reminded of last week's debacle of a clean-up effort and what it implies about the changing relationship between labor groups and society.

At first, New York's Mayor Michael Bloomberg was harshly attacked for the city's slow efforts at removing the snow. But then blame shifted to the Big Apple's sanitation workers, who allegedly dragged their feet on purpose in an effort to protest the city's recent layoffs and benefit-reducing budget cuts. The effects of the slow-down were drastic and widespread. Emergency vehicles were unable to respond to 911 calls, and in an extreme example a newborn baby died as the child's pregnant mother awaited help.

Some union bosses were actually caught drinking beer while they should have been plowing streets:



A group of on-duty Sanitation supervisors is under investigation for allegedly buying booze and chilling in their cozy department car for hours Monday night after the blizzard stranded a bus and three snowplows blocks away.

The city Department of Investigation is probing the incident after witnesses said four snow blowers blew off their duties to get blitzed, buying two six-packs of beer from a Brooklyn bodega. The workers then walked five blocks to their car, which was in 20 inches of snow in the middle of 18th at McDonald avenues near the F train entrance, passing the stuck bus and idle plows on 18th Avenue between Third and Fourth streets.

The four remained in the idling sedan until morning -- then told their bosses they could do nothing about the blizzard because they had run out of gas, one witness said.

"They just sat in their car all night with the heat running," the witness said.


If the snow removal slow-down was indeed an orchestrated effort by the sanitation workers union, someone should be held accountable for lives lost. This does seem to be the case, as it has been reported that 10% of sanitation workers called in sick when the snow storm hit, an unusually high rate that appears to be more than a coincidence. But perhaps we need to take a deeper look at the issue, and ask why the workers would be motivated to react in this way.

While it seems fashionable for many (especially on the right) to slam unions of late, I'm going to resist the temptation to pile on. The reality is, whether we acknowledge it or not, many of the workplace protections we take for granted were only the result of the hard won victories of unions. Unions have played a prominent role in the enactment of a broad range of labor laws and expectations like regular raises, paid vacations, the 40 hour work week, overtime pay, minimum wage, health and retirement coverage, unemployment insurance and workers' compensation and maternity leave. Now that the economy is sour, governments and businesses are using that temporary fact as an excuse to permanently erode the benefits and securities that actually motivate employees to keep a good job. It was not that long ago that sweat shop conditions and dead-end careers were the norm for America's working class.

Is that the kind of American workplace we want? How would you react if your boss suddenly reduced your pay, took away your title, gave you more work, and expected the same output? That's what happened to the NYC sanitation workers. It's something to reflect about.

I am not in any way justifying the actions of some sanitation workers who may have intentionally done a bad job to protest reductions in their benefits. I'd also be the last guy to paint all members of the NYC sanitation workers union with a broad brush of guilt for the actions of a relative few. We as a country really need to move beyond this sort of guilt by association. I suspect an overwhelming majority of those sanitation workers take pride in their jobs, did a good job and feel horrible about the loss of life that happened as a result of the streets not being plowed quickly enough. At the same time, this makes you wonder if more lives could be lost if the American worker continues to be seen as the first line for cuts in lean times.

Someone needs to pay the families of those who suffered as a result of a few sanitation workers' malfeasance. But if we don't remain aware of managers and politicians as they squash the power of unions, we could end up suffering much more -- back where we started as powerless peasants dependent on the whims of the rich and powerful. The quality of workmanship on all levels would suffer, as no one would be inspired to do their best. Then we would have bus drivers, hospital workers, air plane mechanics and others we depend on potentially checking out on the job.

As today's new snow storm falls, these are chilling thoughts.

 

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9 Steps To Sticking With Your 2011 Fitness Resolutions

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When it comes to keeping New Year's fitness resolutions, you've tried it all to no avail. Gym memberships. The latest diet craze. Support groups.

But have you tried God? Yes, God.

Fitness guru Donna Richardson Joyner finds that people tend to stick with their exercise routine longer when it's faith-based. "At the end of the day we will waive on a lot of things in our life but won't waive on our faith," says Richardson Joyner, creator of the 'Body Gospel' workout DVD and member of the President's Council on Fitness, Sports and Nutrition (PCFSN).

Spiritually-based fitness goals provide a foundation for people to change their mindset and when their minds are changed, their thoughts and actions will follow, she explains. It's about overall wellness. It's not about creating an out to blame God if the program fails. Richardson Joyner is very clear about one thing: Faith without works is dead.

"You have to put your faith to work. You have to take action, fight for it. It's like anything else in your life. Take the steps."

It also comes down to making your health a priority.

We've all heard the you-have-money-for- (fill in the blank)-but-don't-invest-in-your-health speech. But she cautions: "If you don't make a small investment in your health now, you're going to spend a whole lot of money later because of that doctor bill or that hospital bill."

To help you start 2011 off with bang, Richardson Joyner has compiled nine actionable steps that will assist you in accomplishing your fitness goals this year.


1. Have the desire to change. You have to want to change more than you want to stay the same. Period. Once you decide to start a new exercise program, stay committed to that program.

2. Admit your present condition and create an action plan. Most people are in denial and "try to fit into that dress when that dress is two sizes smaller," Richardson Joyner says. Instead, accept where you are and develop a plan and vision for yourself otherwise you can't accomplish your goal.

3. Set new goals: short term and long term. Fitness experts say set SMART goals: specific, measurable, attainable, realistic and timely. Just saying 'I want to lose weight this year' isn't a smart goal because it's not specific. "You didn't even say how many pounds, you didn't say how long you're going to take to lose that weight," Richardson Joyner points out. If you're not completing your goals, maybe you aren't being realistic. Tweak them. Don't quit!

4. Be committed & be productive. You can talk about it but if you aren't committed fulltime, you aren't going to achieve your goals. Remember, this is a lifestyle journey so it's important for you to plant good seeds of health and let them take root.

5. Stay Motivated. Load your iPod with uplifting music or workout with a BFF to keep you inspired about exercising. "If you're not motivated you're not going to stay with it," Richardson Joyner warns. Need more motivation? Consider creating a vision board to help reinforce your fitness goals.

6. Combine healthy eating with physical activity.
Eating healthy low-calorie meals and burning more calories through exercise is the best way to lose weight.

7. Challenge yourself. It's important to challenge yourself because you'll get bored. The F.I.T. principle says you have to change your frequency, intensity and the time of your workout. Richardson Joyner also adds changing the type of workout you do. "Just by changing it, that will keep you motivated and add extra challenge," she says.

8. Be patient.
You didn't get to your current size overnight so don't expect to shed those pounds in one day. Avoid comparing yourself to others because you don't know what they did to get their physique. "All you see is the outcome," Richardson Joyner says.

9. Love yourself no matter where you are.
It may sound hokey, but it's extremely important to accept where you are. Start by nourishing yourself and knowing that your decision to improve your body is a step in the right direction. "Look in the mirror and say 'I love myself.' And know, what you don't like, you can change," Richardson Joyner says.

What are your workout secrets? Check out a sample of the 'Body Gospel' workout below!

 

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Tessa vs. Kim: Who Wore Versus Best?

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You may not know the name Tessa Thompson, but if you watched this fall's hit movie, 'For Colored Girls,' you saw the beautiful young actress hold her own against Hollywood heavy weights like Whoopi Goldberg and Thandie Newton. Tessa made her fashion debut at the red carpet premiere of the movie in a sassy black Versus bustier dress. She accessorized the dress with Rene Caovilla Swarovski crystal sandals, a tiny black clutch and added a fun touch of color with jade earrings.

Kim Kardashian, on the other hand, is a name you can't ignore. The curvy reality star was also seen on the red carpet in the lovely leather and velvet dress back in November. She paired it with black tights, bold earrings and a bunch of bright bangles. Both ladies look cute and confident, but we want to know what you think. Who wore this Versus dress the best?

 

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Happy Birthday, Zora Neale Hurston!

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Zora Neale Hurston


"Janie knew now that marriage did not make love. Janie's first dream was dead. So she became a woman."

"Janie, Ah hope God may kill me, if Ah'm lyin'. Nobody else on earth kin hold uh candle tuh you, baby. You got de keys to de kingdom."

-- Teacake

"Their Eyes Were Watching God," Zora Neale Hurston's (pictured) fictional exploration of a black woman's self-discovery, was not simply about finding romantic love -- because ultimately that implodes at the end of the story -- but finding her own voice through love.

And it resonates 120 years after her birth, January 7, 1891.


Zora Neale Hurston died in obscurity in 1960, after a life that came full circle.

Hurston began her working life as a maid and died working as a cleaning woman for a white woman, who was shocked and impressed when she found out her maid was a masterful writer but still kept her cleaning her house.

The iconic writer had been publicly criticized by her black American male peers -- Richard Wright and Ralph Ellison -- for her use of black dialect and her refusal to anchor her stories around the "Negro problem."

Famously she responded:

"Sometimes, I feel discriminated against, but it does not make me angry. It merely astonishes me. How can any deny themselves the pleasure of my company? It's beyond me."

What's ironic about their criticism is the dialect is some of the most brilliant, beautiful, insightful prose -- full of witty black idioms and expressions that could have been lost to an undocumented and neglected history.

As an anthropologist, she studied the nuances and cadences of black language, and as a Southern black woman growing up in all-black Eatonville, Fla., she had the privilege of living it.

Eatonville, the first all-black town to be incorporated, was a kind of rural Chocolate City. For blacks who lived under the constant thumb of oppression in more integrated towns, it was difficult to envision an existence outside The Man's glare.

For many blacks from places, such as Eatonville, though, they just lived.

Like everybody else. And most of the time with a lot more color.

Hurston's point of view exemplified this to the consternation of her more parochial contemporaries who felt she was exposing the uneducated dirty laundry of the black community.

Her stories were told with broken English -- how was this going to get us equal privilege? Or more importantly, what will white folks think?!

Courageously, Hurston didn't give a damn what men or white folks or anyone thought.

And, of course, she was punished because of it -- ostracized and criticized.

But even she had to tow the racial line at times. In Valerie Boyd's biography, 'Wrapped in Rainbows,' Boyd illustrates how Hurston tottered on a seesaw in the racial landscape of the 1920s.

Hurston reportedly dumbed herself down in letters to her white female benefactor, playing on racial stereotypes for the purposes of simultaneously soothing her ego and opening her purse.

While 'Their Eyes Were Watching God' is her most celebrated work, her other books, including 'Dust Tracks on a Road,' 'Jonah's Gourd Vine,' and 'Mules and Men,' all explore the comedy, the poignancy and ordinariness of black language and life, while 'Seraph on the Suwanee' explores the dialect and lives of poor white Southerners.

As a journalist and anthropologist, Hurston studied at Morgan State University (then Morgan Academy) and Howard University, where she founded the Hilltop (still in existence today) and became the only black student at Barnard College, which she was able to attend with the help of a scholarship.

She later enrolled at Columbia, studying anthropology. Hurston went on to study African religions and cultural practices, including voudoun in Haiti (where she reportedly wrote 'Their Eyes' in just over a month) and African rituals in Jamaica.

She was high-spirited, didn't hesitate to fight or argue, or alternately party or dazzle when she walked in to a room. Hurson was an author, married and divorced twice, a mentor to children in Harlem, an anthropologist and a journalist. One author said she constantly had him looking in the dictionary after conversations with her.

But mostly she lived. Without fear and with humor -- just like the characters she created.

She was buried in an unmarked grave before Alice Walker found the general area where she may have been buried and provided it with a marker. But even without a marker she could never be forgotten.

Happy birthday, Zora.

You can watch the documentary of her life from California Newsreel and from editor Sam Pollard here:

 

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Alternatives to Payday Loans When You Need Cash Fast: Part 1

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Alternatives to Payday Loans
The $40 billion a year payday loan industry is booming thanks to high unemployment and a lack of access to traditional bank credit. While most individuals typically think about payday lenders doing business mainly with poor people and minorities, the Wall Street Journal reports that payday loans are also increasingly being used by middle class and wealthy Americans who've fallen on hard economic times.

But it doesn't matter whether you're earning $20,000 a year or $200,000. If you've ever taken out a payday loan, you know they don't come cheap. Annual interest rates of 400% or more are common, and that's just one of the dangers of payday loans.

Fortunately, there are many better, less costly alternatives to payday loans. Here are 10 other sources of funds you can turn to when you need cash fast:

1. Obtain a Payroll Advance from Your Employer
Instead of heading to a local payday lender, march into your employer's HR Department to inquire about whether a payroll advance is possible. Companies don't typically publicize this option to employees. But ever since the Great Recession, a growing number of employers have began offering payroll cash advances and loans to workers, according to Alice Whinnery, CEO of LFE Institute, which provides information on financial literacy in the workplace.

2. Get Financial Help from a Local Non-Profit Organization
Regional non-profits and local community development groups are increasingly providing financial assistance for those in dire financial straits. So do a Google search for non-profit organizations in your town and contact a few to see about loans.

For example, in Arkansas, a group called Arkansans Against Abusive Payday Lending, provides borrowers with loans up to $500, which can be repaid over six to 16 months. The organization, comprised of 36 consumer, military and faith-based groups in the state, has been so effective that it helped drive payday lenders out of Arkansas altogether. As of August 2009, there are no payday lenders in Arkansas.

3. Use a Credit Card Cash Advance or Balance Transfer Check
A credit card cash advance typically involves a fee of 1% to 4% of the loan amount. Plus, the interest rates on credit card advances are now running anywhere from 15% to 25%. But that's still far better than what you'll pay if you resort to a payday loan. Besides, when used strategically, a credit card balance transfer may even help improve your credit score.

4. Get a "Small Dollar Loan" from a Bank
Even though the credit crunch has made it a lot tougher to get bank loans, many financial institutions are nevertheless launching new initiatives to compete with payday lenders. As of January 1, 2011, nine federally-insured banks began a new pilot program called FDIC Model Safe Accounts. One key feature of this program: "small dollar loans" of up to $2,500, approved in just 24 hours. Meanwhile, under the Bank On program, lenders nationwide are expanding their efforts to provide small, fast loans to borrowers in need.


5. Request a Loan from a Credit Union
In an effort to stem loan defaults and delinquencies, many large banks have reduced lending to individuals. Meantime, credit unions have been stepping in to fill the gap. Credit unions provide small, short-term loans to their members and you can join one based on any number of affiliation requirements, such as where you live or work. Find a credit union in your area via the National Credit Union Administration.

6. Seek cash from a Peer-to-Peer Lending Group
Just as credit unions have gained in popularity, so too have peer-to-peer lending groups, such as Lending Club or Prosper. But as businesses like VirginMoney have closed up shop, gone are the days when virtually anyone could get cash from a peer-to-peer lender. Now, the individuals who supply loans through these lending circles want you to have at least halfway decent credit to get a halfway decent interest rate.

7. Tap a Life Insurance Policy
If you have a life insurance policy - a whole life policy, not term life - it may have built up cash value over the years. You can tap into this money quickly and easily by taking a loan against your insurance policy (a first step) or cashing out of the policy altogether (a last-ditch move).

8. Return a Recent Purchase
Are you in a financial bind because you've overspent? If you did a little too much shopping during the holidays or for some other special occasion, that may be the cause (partially, at least) of your current economic woes. Rather than going to a payday lender, head straight back to the retail store or establishment where you recently made a purchase, return the merchandise you bought, and get a refund. Also, to avoid future overspending, read this advice for shopaholics.

9. Donate Blood Plasma - or Other Bodily Fluids
College students and others have done this for years when they're in a financial pinch. It could be that the college crowd is more likely to hear about medical research projects or other health care-related offers in which they can get paid. But you don't have to become a medical guinea pig to score a few bucks (unless you want to). Instead, just find a local hospital, clinic or health care facility that pays people who want to donate blood plasma, or other bodily fluids (translation: sperm). One such source for donating blood plasma is BloodBanker. Depending on the city in which you live, you can net up to $50 per donation.

10. Dip Into Your 401(k) plan
It pains me to offer this tip because I typically warn people not to raid their 401(k) retirement plans prematurely or unnecessarily. But if you're at the point of seriously considering a payday loan, I'd reluctantly say: Go for a 401(k) loan, or even take a 401(k) withdrawal, instead. Even though the withdrawal will ultimately force you to pay a 10% penalty on the amount you take out, plus ordinary income taxes, I'd still recommend this route over getting a payday loan.

My rationale is simple: payday loans are like economic crack. You may feel a quick rush (or at least a sense of relief) from getting that fast cash. Perhaps you'll even promise yourself (like many people who 'experiment') that that you'll do it "just this one time." But don't kid yourself: payday loans are addictive and destructive.

Once you go down the path of getting a payday loan, it's hard to turn back. That's why the average person who gets a payday loan typically rolls them over, getting an average of one payday loan per month, or 12 in a year. And payday loan customers who use "roll overs" wind up paying over 1,000% in interest, according to a study by Georgetown University researchers. That's a deal-breaker for me. Use the 401(k) money instead.

Next week: Read Part Two of this article for the final 5 alternatives to payday loans, plus my final words of advice on finding alternatives to payday loans.



Lynnette Khalfani-Cox, an award-winning financial news journalist and former Wall Street Journal reporter for CNBC, has been featured in the Washington Post, USA Today, and the New York Times, as well as magazines ranging from Essence and Redbook to Black Enterprise and Smart Money. Check out her New York Times best seller 'Zero Debt: The Ultimate Guide to Financial Freedom.'

 

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Luv Coach Q&A: Rocking the Cradle of Love!

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I am a 28-year-old black, Christian woman who is presently dating a 20-year-old black, Christian man. It has only been six weeks so far and I'm starting to grow feelings for him. We are both attending college as science students, and we both have similar goals and aspirations for our lives. He tells me that he isn't ready for a relationship, but acts differently. If I go away for at least 45 minutes he misses me, and wonders where I've been. He acts very emotional towards me. We had sex a few times. (I know that's wrong in God's eyes). I told him lets just be friends and stop the touching and cuddling, but then he can't eat nor sleep. He then starts to ask me if am seeing someone else.
Please help.
-Roxanne


You are dabbling in a very young dating pool, and this opens you up to falling into dating traps. With the age difference at this stage in your lives, it's too easy to end up playing the 'mommy' and 'baby' roles, which lead to dependence and neediness. At 20, he does not have the emotional maturity to have a relationship with you, and he hasn't fully developed into his adult self. He is unclear about what he wants, because he doesn't fully know who he is, and his overtly emotional reactions are a result of his underdeveloped identity.

The big question is, why did you choose to get involved with someone who is so young? He's obviously not ready for this type of emotional commitment, so why are you now choosing to walk away? What did you want from him? Are you looking for a committed partner to share your life with, or are you just looking for sexual satisfaction and an ego boost? You entered into this relationship sharing personal goals and aspirations, and once he became attached, you pulled the rug out from under him. You too have acted differently, and you have both been unclear about what you wanted from the get go. If someone tells you they are not ready to have a relationship, then why have sex with them? Were you hoping to change his mind?

You have to ask yourself what you really want out of a relationship, and find someone who is mature enough to provide those things. If you're just looking for a college fling, then choose someone with more maturity and set boundaries so everyone involved is aware of the parameters. Until you figure out what you want, you can't pick a man who is going to be right for you. Establish a friendship or be a mentor to this young man, and take some time away from the dating world to figure out what kind of partner and relationship you want in your life. Don't play games with young hearts, they are already confused enough trying to figure out who they are in this world.


Rebecca Brody is a relationship coach and columnist in NYC. She hosts ImprovDates.com, and works with private clients. Send your questions to Brody@TheLuvCoach.com or visit her at www.TheLuvCoach.com.

 

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The Black Depression Continues Despite Recent Job Growth

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The Black Depression
From The Huffington Post:

The latest snapshot of the American job market, released by the Labor Department on Friday, confirms what most ordinary people already knew without need of a government report: Little is improving quickly or broadly enough to dislodge the anxiety that has taken up long-term residence in many communities.

The unemployment rate fell to 9.4 percent in December, from 9.8 percent the month prior. But that had little to do with people actually finding work, and much to do with the jobless simply giving up and halting their searches, dropping out of the statistical pool known as the labor force.

A deeper dive past the headline numbers reveals a reality that ought to trigger national alarm but hasn't for the simple reason that it is already embedded in the country we have unfortunately become: the Divided States of America.

Among white people, the unemployment rate dropped in December to 8.5 percent -- hardly acceptable, but manageable were the government spending more to expand a fraying social safety net and generate jobs. For black Americans, the unemployment rate was 15.8 percent.


Professional economists will not pause for an instant at those figures. It is a truism that the black unemployment rate generally runs double the white one, and yet when did that become acceptable? How can there be so little discussion about a full-blown epidemic of joblessness in the African-American community, as if the commonplace incidence of despair -- and, more recently, reversed progress -- somehow amounts to old news?

"Can you imagine any other group at that level of unemployment and the media dismissing it as not important?" the Rev. Jesse Jackson asked during an interview this week.

He described deteriorating inner-city, predominantly-black communities in Chicago and Detroit. In New York, a recent study found that more than one-third of African-American men aged 16 to 24 were unemployed between early 2009 and the middle of last year.

"These are the same areas that were targeted for foreclosure by the banks, through reverse redlining," Jackson said, referring to the way subprime lending operations preyed with particular dispatch on minority communities. "These are the same areas that have less access to transportation, which makes it nearly impossible to get to where the jobs are. You are structurally locked out of economic participation and growth."

The picture becomes more vivid still using a broader Labor Department measure known as underemployment, which counts jobless people along with those who are working part-time for lack of full-time work, or who have given up looking for work but are eager for jobs. Among African-Americans, the underemployment rate was running just under 25 percent late last year, according to an analysis of government data by the Economic Policy Institute in Washington. That compared to a rate of about 15 percent for white Americans.

Nearly 15 years have passed since the publication of "When Work Disappears," a masterful book by sociologist William Julius Wilson describing in compelling detail the impact on working class African-American neighborhoods suffering large job losses: in a word, disintegration. Little has changed since then except for an acceleration of the slide.

Read the rest on The Huffington Post.

 

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Tionna Smalls: Women Don't Like to Admit They're Settling

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A bad breakup can be good a catalyst for new beginnings. Such is the case for Tionna Tee Smalls, co-star of VH1's reality series 'What Chilli Wants.' Smalls, who quit her job and ended a six-year relationship in 2007, wrote an independent book in jest that led her to landing a gig as relationship advice columnist online. Little did Smalls know that a VH1 producer read her column faithfully, and decided that Smalls would be the perfect person to work on the show in development with TLC member Rozonda "Chilli" Thomas .

The rest, as they say, is history, and now in its second season, Smalls is back on television helping Chilli really find and lock down a man. While the first season proved to be no easy feat, Smalls has now written another book that she hopes will not only help Chilli, but also other women searching for love.

Smalls recently chatted with Black Voices about her new book, the new season of the show, and her own new love.


You wrote a book years ago that now has the same title as the book you recently released. Is this part 2, or an entirely different book?

Girl, 'Get Your Mind Right' is a completely different book. The first was written three years ago, and now that I'm older I realized the stuff I wrote in the first book was more of a rant than anything else. I didn't want to promote fuckery, so what I had to do was tone it down and see everything from a different aspect, but still keep it real.
What is the message in the book?

Making sure before you even think about a relationship, you get yourself together. Too many people try to find a perfect person when they haven't worked on their own imperfections. Women like to think 'Oh we got nice hair, we pretty, etc.' but still nobody wants to wife us up. No one wants to wife us up because our shit isn't right, and nobody is going to tell you that. Not your friends, not your mom, but Tionna Smalls' in 'Get Your Mind Right,' is going to tell you that.

How do you suggest a woman begins focusing on herself?


First thing is to get your ass a hobby. When women get a man, they focus on nothing but that man. "I love him, I have to be around him all day." No boo, get your ass a hobby - you can't have nothing to do but him. He's going to get bored with you and you'll be kicked to the curb. The second thing is, don't forget your friends. Women get a man and you don't hear anything from them. I understand your life does change, but you don't have to let it change so drastically that you're like, "I'm just about my man," -- that's lame.

On 'What Chilli Wants,' you and Chilli butted heads the first season. What can we expect this season?

I never knew this girl before I did this show, and she didn't know who I was. A lot of celebrities are always around "yes" people so much they aren't used to "real" people . I'm aggressively real at times. This season we both realized our differences and are able to get it poppin'!

The biggest point you tried to ma
ke on the show was that Chilli's standards were too high, but isn't that relative to the person and who they are and what they do?

Don't get me wrong - anyone can have standards, but when your standards make you pass on a good guy, then that's a problem. No matter what, there will be something about a man that doesn't meet your qualifications. You can't live your life believing the "he has to have" myth. Sometimes you have to give a man a chance; otherwise you'll be alone.


How is that not settling? If a guy doesn't have things you look for then doesn't that make him a "good guy" for someone else?

When I say 'good guy,' I'm talking about someone who's a cool dude and actually wants to date you and make you happy. Last season there were guys that I still speak with that are super cool, and I still feel Chilli could have given them the chance to get to know them a little more.

Let's say women give a chance to that 'good guy' that doesn't have all the things she's looking for, but the man seems promising. Is it dangerous liking someone for their potential?

In the book I call it "WWAM": work with a man. Sometimes you have to work with people. Maybe you find a man with a job you don't like but you see he has potential. Understand he has to show you he has potential; you just can't make potential up. I used to be that type of girl. However, if someone shows, proves, and communicates with you their potential and what his plan is: work with a man.

What's the difference between lowering your standards and settling?


I don't believe in either; what I believe in is compromising. No one is perfect. You're going to meet people with stuff you don't like and some things you do. You have to work within those lines. Many women don't know what settling is. Settling to me is when you think you have your little boo, he screws you, lives with you, but doesn't do anything for you. You go along with it asking yourself what else you are going to do. Settling is straight-up accepting anything because you'd rather not be alone.

Then what is lowering your standards?

Most chicks out here saying they don't want to lower their standards are the same ones out here settling. In relationships with guys they know are screwing someone else, or living together and he's not contributing anything... guess what? Your standards are already lowered, and you're settling.

What's the biggest mistake women make in love and relationships?

Giving everything up for love.

Taking your own advice, how has your love life changed over the years since that first rant?

Back then I was single, sick of men, "f*** ya'll dudes," middle finger and everything. Reality set in that you can't live with hurt from your past. My fiance stopped speaking to me when we first met because I was so mad at the world and at men. I felt like I messed up something with a good guy because of my attitude. So I let go of the attitude, and now I'm in love and getting married. Obviously I did the right thing.

 

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WBLS Radio Personality Egypt Shares Personal Finance Advice

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Egypt Sherrod
What is your name and what do you do?
My name is Egypt Sherrod and I am a television and radio personality, community advocate and editor of EgyptSaidSo.com.

What are the biggest misconceptions people have about celebrities and their money?
I believe the biggest misconception people have about celebrities is that we are all RICH! Child please... Many recording artists, actors, TV hosts, etc., are still living "rented" lifestyles. We have many of the same financial struggles as every other American. I was well into my twenties before I recognized the importance of residual and multiple streams of income.

What has been the funniest/ scariest moment of your career?
The best and probably funniest moment of my career occurred this week when PRINCE paid me a visit on my 107.5 WBLS radio show. Apparently he had been in the New York area preparing for his "Welcome To America Tour" at the Izod Center and Madison Square Garden. Management informed me that Prince was listening to my show and would like to do an interview with me. Now.... I was over at CNN about to talk on air to TJ Holmes about Prince's surprise visit to 'The View.' Imagine my surprise!!! I hauled ass back to the station to get ready for the interview of my LIFE!!!!!

Prince never does radio interviews. As a matter of fact, I was his fourth radio interview ever. I must say he was the humblest, most down to earth celebrity I've met. I thought he would be completely over the top diva-ish. But believe it or not, he didn't even bring security and stuck around for 45 minutes. Now if you think Sherri Shephard acted a fool on 'The View,' honeyyyy you should have seen the one handed somersault I did when Prince left. I was literally under the table --DEAD AND BURIED!! At least I maintained professionalism while he was there. The only thing better would be if Michael Jackson was resurrected and paid me a visit. I love that man even more now. Here's the link to the interview: http://egyptsaidso.com/interviews/exclusive-prince-talks-to-egypt/

What surprised you the most about the financial side of your industry?
The most surprising thing about the entertainment industry to me is the lack of financial planning. I've seen artist after artist go belly up because their spending habits exceeded their income. On a personal level, radio and television careers generally have no retirement provisions worked into our contracts. If you work in a union market then you may be entitled to a small pension. But for the most part, we are responsible for setting up our own retirement plan. A few years back I sat with financial advisers who taught me about SEP IRAs, ROTH IRAs, GMIBs and Annuities. Social Security will be extinct by the time our generation reaches retirement. So while we are enjoying the present, we must still plan for the future. This means stashing some loot away.

How has Twitter helped you in building your brand and run your business?
Do you remember when everyone would use the term "that's what is hot in the streets?" Well in my opinion, the Internet is "the streets" now. A few years back people were selling their products and building their names on a person to person grassroots level. Today the Internet is making millionaires. You literally have a group of people known as "Internet celebrities" because of their online popularity. So, the Internet being the streets means that social networking sites are neighborhoods. Right now Twitter and Facebook are the most equitable neighborhoods to live in. Owning a Twitter account with 100,000 followers is like owning a townhouse on the Hudson River. My Twitter followers have expanded my brand and my efforts far beyond what I could have done by word of mouth. I am grateful we have tools like this now. It allows us to create our own destiny.

Do you have any financial advice for aspiring celebs out there?
Well in addition to being a media maven, I'm also a credit specialist and licensed real estate agent. So I've learned the value of good credit and 'owning' versus 'renting.' My advice is this...

1. Live within your means.
2. If you can't pay it in cash, don't buy it... credit cards can be a trap if you don't learn how to use credit correctly.
3. ALWAYS sign your own checks and don't allow anyone else to run your bank accounts.
4. Pay your taxes. Uncle Sam will ALWAYS take his. Just ask Wesley Snipes (damn shame).
5. Be a business person, not just a talented person. Knowing the business side of your craft will keep a roof over your head.

Is there anything else you'd like to share with our Black Voices audience?
Yes, I'd like to thank them for reading this and sharing their time with me. I'd also like to remind them to keep a relationship with the man above. These are very tough economic times that we live in. Additionally, there is spiritual warfare happening around us everyday. The way to thrive in these times is to keep our feet firmly on the ground; know what we will stand for and what we won't; and to be compassionate to one another. If we stay centered in the chaos, then we'll stay balanced even when the world isn't.

 

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'Ready For Primetime: Keith David & Dorian Missick Take On 'The Cape'

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Veteran actors Keith David and Dorian Missick will be returning to the TV world as NBC airs a special 2-Hour series premiere of their new anticipated television drama series 'The Cape' on Sunday, January 9.

'The Cape' is a throwback to old heroes with a 21st century sensibility one-hour drama series starring David Lyons as Vince Faraday, an honest cop on a corrupt police force, who finds himself framed for a series of murders and presumed dead. He is forced into hiding, leaving behind his wife Dana and son, Trip. Fueled by a desire to reunite with his family and to battle criminal forces, Vince Faraday becomes 'The Cape' - his son's favorite comic book superhero - and takes the law into his own hand.


Keith stars as Max Milani, the ringleader of a circus gang of bank robbers who mentors Vince Faraday and trains him to be The Cape. As Max Malini, Keith is trying to hold together his team of bank robbers that don't believe in Vince, 'The Cape.'

Having appeared on numerous films and television series, including Paul Haggis' Academy Award-winning 'Crash,' the comedy film 'There's Something About Mary,' Disney's 'The Princess and the Frog,' NBC's 'ER' and 'Law and Order,' David is always excited to work on a new program.

"It's been an honor to work with such a talented cast and crew. We have all put our expertise together to bring this great cinematic tale to life, and I'm ready for the ride," states the New York native.

Missick will play a former police detective and friend of Faraday, who betrays him, setting into motion the main plotline of the show - that a cop is disgraced and puts on a costume to have a "secret identity" and get to the bottom of what happened.

Last seen on the big screen opposite Gerard Butler and Jennifer Aniston in 'The Bounty Hunter,' Missick's television credits include the series 'Six Degrees,' 'Sons of Anarchy,' and 'Raising the Bar.' He will next be seen in the independent film 'Mooz-lum,' opposite Evan Ross and Nia Long.

 

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Laurence Fishburne's 'Thurgood' Set To Debut On HBO During Black History Month

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'Thurgood,' the one-man Broadway play starring Laurence Fishburne in his Tony-nominated performance as Thurgood Marshall, the remarkable Civil Rights lawyer and Supreme Court Justice, will debut Feb.24 at 9:00 p.m. ET/PT during Black History Month, exclusively on HBO.

Told in the first person by Fishburne in the role of Marshall, 'Thurgood' is a compelling present-tense narration revisiting the turning points in his life and career as he remembers them. Recalling childhood stories of his family and home life in Baltimore, to his college days in North Carolina as an aspiring lawyer, Marshall recollects his triumphs over adversity to pursue a successful career in the judicial system fighting for human rights.

Establishing benchmarks in Civil Rights advancement, Marshall tried the historic case of Brown vs. Board of Education before the Supreme Court, successfully challenging the unconstitutional segregation of black and white students in public schools. His achievements eventually led him to become the first African-American to serve as a Supreme Court Justice.

The show was written by Academy Award and Emmy Award winner George Stevens, Jr.; directed by Emmy Award winner Michael Stevens; and executive produced by Bill Haber.

In addition to starring in such notable films as 'Othello' and 'The Matrix' trilogy, Fishburne has a long list of stage credits, including 'Fences,' 'The Lion in Winter' and 'Two Trains Running,' for which he won a Tony Award.

Currently, the Georgia stars as Dr. Raymond Langston on the long-running CBS crime drama 'CSI: Crime Scene Investigation.'

 

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Behind Ted Williams' Golden Voice is a Woman With a Golden Heart

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Behind Ted Williams' Golden Voice is a Woman with a Golden Heart, Ex-Wife Patricia Kirtley


If you were as impressed as I was with the story of Ted Williams, the homeless man with the golden voice whose story has been all over the media these past few days, then you should be even more impressed with the woman who raised five of his children after he became strung out on drugs and alcohol.

Not impressed yet?

This woman is partially blind and one of the kids she raised was not her own, but Williams' from another woman.

After Williams gets his life together, he needs to go kiss the feet of Patricia Kirtley.

Just in case you've been under a rock the last few days, Williams, 53, was found on the side of the highway by a Columbus Dispatch reporter holding a sign that said he had the "God-given gift of voice."

The reporter stopped by with a camera, gave Williams a buck and out came a deep, velvety voice that should be famous. The video hit YouTube and Williams now has job offers and work coming from Kraft, the Cleveland Cavaliers and NFL Films just to name a few.

When Williams cut out 23 years ago, Kirtley stayed with the four daughters that the pair had together. She also took in Williams' son and raised him as if he were one of her own.

"We survived," said Kirtley, a resident of Reynoldsburg, Ohio, to the New York Daily News Thursday. "My children are survivors. They know if we get a little bit that God provides, we make it into a lot. I'm a soup maker. I make potato soup and throw in a lot of vegetables and a little meat. We always ate."

Kirtley now has 16 grandchildren. She said Williams was in and out of her children's lives for years. He would call, come by for Thanksgiving dinner, but did not provide financial or emotional support.

Not only that, two of Kirtley's sisters and a cousin took in other children that Williams had fathered but was not involved with because of his drug problem.

Peering through Williams' still inspiring rags-to-riches story, we must look at the pain of the children who were left behind when their father succumbed to the disease of drug addiction.



"He wasn't involved," said Williams' 30-year-old daughter, Julia Pulli en, who was 7 when her dad left. "Our mom was our sole provider. She is a more than phenomenal person. My father is a nice guy, but he fell victim to the streets. We prayed for him and we worried about him, but we became accustomed to the fact that he just wasn't there." Kirtley struggled. She received public assistance before she was able to go to school and become a blind vendor.

"My mother and sisters pitched in and drove me because I can't see to drive," said Kirtley.

The children also didn't understand what was going on.

"They didn't understand why he was never there for their school functions, or just to help with their homework," Kirtley said."That's when I really could have used help, because I couldn't see their pages. My kids are really good readers, though, because I made them read everything to me out loud."

Kirtley's story is one of strength. She's an example of the hundreds of thousands of black women who persevere, raising children on their own because the men in their lives fell victim to drugs, were sent to prison or were just apathetic about the fate of their kids.

Unfortunately, it's too common of a story in our community.

Census data shows that 78 percent of black households were led by married couples in 1950. Only 18 percent of black households were led by single females. In 2000, only 32 percent of black households were led by married couples compared to 53 percent of all households. Almost 31 percent of black households were led by black, single women.

Kirtley says all of her children are adults with jobs of their own but many other single parent households are not as lucky.

So, as Williams continues on his whirlwind tour and the checks start to come in and he utilizes his God-Given gifts, a few things need to happen.

First, Williams needs to meet with his children and seek reconciliation. No one wants to live their life as a drug addict begging for money on the side of a highway. Williams should explain how his life was dragged down by drugs and alcohol and make every effort to get to know his children and grandchildren.

Secondly, he needs to use the financial resources that his voice will provide to help his children, grandchildren and the women who cared for them. A college fund for the children of his family is a good idea.

Finally, Williams needs to get down on his knees and kiss the feet of the many women who took care of his children. He owes them a heartfelt apology for not being there. A whirlwind shopping spree financed by his golden voice might be a good place to start thanking Patricia Kirtley and the women like her who cared for Williams' kids.

I still love Williams' voice and his incredible story. But it's a story that will not be complete until he reconciles with his children.

 

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Former 'Cosby Show' Star Raven-Symone Opens Up About Weight Loss & Struggles

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Phylicia Rashad
isn't the only 'Cosby Show' star slimming down.

Actress, singer/songwriter, and all around media powerhouse, Raven-Symone, who played Olivia, the adorable four-year-old stepdaughter to Denise Huxtable on the groundbreaking sitcom has been seen out and about with a noticeably slimmer frame.

In a recent interview with People magazine, the former Disney star, 25, discussed her weight loss and how she was perceived by others when she was heavier.

"I thought I looked fabulous before and nobody else did," she states.

And while many are elated by her recent weight loss, the former 'That's So Raven' star revealed that she's not entirely comfortable with her new appearance.

"Now I wear bigger clothes because I don't like the way people stare at me. I liked it before. Now, you're just looking at me for the wrong reasons."

Now, here's some added perspective on the subject:

I grew up watching 'The Cosby Show,' like so many, and from watching Raven-Symone on the show it was immediately apparent that she had that undeniable star quality. Over the years she grew from a child to a young woman right before our eyes, and while some people chose to focus on her weight, I chose to focus on that undeniable quality that I found ever-so present during her 'Cosby' days and even still today.

It's always interesting to talk to those who have shed pounds and hear their stories of being treated like second-class citizens when they were heavy, or outside of societal weight norms. But, suddenly, when they lose the weight, they are silently initiated into the "Okay you exist as a person now" club by some in society. As a society, sometimes we have these absurd demarcations as to who should be treated like a human. Sometimes it's weight. Sometimes it's a person's accent, Other times it's another particular we choose to ostracize. None of which define a person as they are in the inside or inherently indicate an inability to function in a society.

At the end of the day, Raven is an accomplished, and beautiful woman who has managed to avoid the trappings of Hollywood (sex, drugs, and rock and roll) and build a media empire and legacy that she can pass on.

Now, that's something to pay attention to.

 

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Call It A Comeback: Queens of Hip Hop Salt-N-Pepa Embark on Legends Tour

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has learned that Grammy Award-winning rap act Salt-N-Pepa are embarking on a 20-city Legends of Hip-Hop Tour to commemorate the 25th anniversary of their first album release, 1986's 'Hot, Cool, & Vicious.'The tour, which will feature such additional hip-hop heavyweights as MC Lyte, Doug E. Fresh, Kool Moe Dee, Slick Rick, Naughty by Nature, Biz Markie, Rob Base, Whodini, and Kurtis Blow, will kick-off Feb. 4 in Cleveland, Ohio at the Wolstein Center.

Salt-N-Pepa, which consists of Cheryl "Salt" James, Sandy "Pepa" Denton, and Deidre "Dee Dee" Roper (DJ Spinderella) broke barriers in rap as an all-women rap crew, who opened doors for other women in the male-dominated hip-hop industry. With such hit songs as 'Push It,' 'Shoop,' and 'Whatta Man,' Salt-N-Pepa intertwined such themes as safe sex and female empowerment in their songs. As a testament to their talent, the trio have held their own for a quarter century in an industry that has seen many acts come and go.

The group, which officially reunited in large part because of the VH1 reality show 'The Salt-N-Pepa Show,' realized that their fans have been itching for a reunion, and decided to put aside their differences and make the tour and other ventures materialize.

"We encounter so many people who said they long to hear and see us again in concert," Salt said. "People really miss seeing us out there. They come up to us and mention that our music touched them, brings back so many great memories for them and helped them just see life differently."

Speaking to the unprecedented success of a smaller version of the tour in 2010, Pepa added, "Last year, the response was incredible. From Atlanta to DC, we sold out each date. People really want to see us and we really wanted to make this happen for our fans. Also, the timing was just right and it just all came together perfectly."

This year's 'Legends of Hip-Hop Tour' aims to bring together hip-hop lovers to celebrate this milestone for Salt-N-Pepa and enjoy a night of non-stop music and nostalgia.

LEGENDS OF HIP-HOP TOUR DATES

February 4 Cleveland, OH Wolstein Center
February 5 Buffalo, TX Shea's PAC
February 11 Miami, FL James L. Knight Center
February 12 New Orleans, LA Lakefront Arena
February 13 Kansas City, MO Municipal Auditorium
February 18 Philadelphia, PA Liacouras Center
February 19 Baltimore, MD 1st Mariner Arena
February 20 Newark, NJ PAC
February 25 Jacksonville, FL Coliseum
February 26 Washington, DC Constitution Hall
March 4 Columbia, SC Township Auditorium
March 5 Baton Rouge, LA Riverside Centroplex
March 11 Norfolk, VA Constant Conv. Ctr
March 12 St. Louis, MO Chaifetz Arena
March 13 Memphis, TN DeSoto Civic Center
March 18 Nashville, TN Municipal Auditorium
March 19 Chicago, IL Arie Crown Theater
March 25 Richmond, VA Coliseum
March 26 Dallas, TX Dallas Convention Center
April 2 Atlanta, GA Civic Center




 

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Bob Marley's Image Used to Sell Audio Equipment

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Bob Marley's Image Used to Sell Stereo Equipment


After weighing the pros and cons and even listening to the classic album "Exodus" for a little inspiration, I still don't know if the deal inked by Bob Marley's survivors to use his image to hawk audio equipment is a good thing.

On one hand, almost anything that gets the name of the reggae music icon and personal hero into the public mainstream is a good thing. At least he's not selling bug spray like Muhammad Ali did back in the 1970's.

But on the other hand, attaching the name and likeness of a man who stood for so much, such as putting his life on the line to end the violence that surrounded Jamaica's 1976 elections, to something as mundane as stereo equipment leaves me a little cold.

House of Marley, a creation of Marley's surviving family members, unveiled a line of headphones, earbuds and speaker docks being sold under Marley's name. To try and bring a more "ital" feel to the project, the equipment is being marketed as using "as much recycled and eco-friendly material as possible."

Does anyone else smell a weak sales pitch?

You really can't blame the Marley family for seeking to earn some money from their patriarch's toil. Other folks sure are.

Marley's name, sound and image are believed to generate $600 million annually in pirated merchandise. Marley ranks with Elvis Presley and Michael Jackson among the world's richest dead celebrities.

Marley left no will and his riches have been the subject of numerous legal battles between his family members and corporate interests.

I don't know if Bob Marley headphones will ultimately catch on with consumers.

But I do know I won't be running out to get a pair. The whole House of Marley campaign lacks the component that made Marley a great man to me and millions of others followers - authenticity.



 

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Picked, Pressed n' Curled: Share Your Best Do's with Black Voices

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We're looking for your best moments in black hair history. Did you rock an asymmetrical cut like Salt and Peppa? Did you know the joys of picking and patting your Afro into the most perfect puff? Send us a picture of your mement in black hair histroy and get featured on the Black Voices site! We want to see it all, everything from corn rows to Jheri Curls (yes, even those).

Here are the three ways you can share your photo:

1) Post it on the Black Voices Facebook Fan Page
2) Send it to us @blackvoices on Twitter. Be sure to use the hashtag #BVHAIRHISTORY
3) Post it on the Black Voices message boards in this thread here.


Here are just a few of the styles we're looking for:


Braids: Inspired by Stevie, Rick James or the Williams Sisters? Did you go through a Poetic Justice phase?









Jheri Curl
: Just spray, shake and go! Jheri Curls, for many, were a great and simple hair solution in the 80's. More than a few of us let our Soul Glo back in the day.







Short Crop: From Halle to Prince, even Angela Bassett rocked this cute cut in the 90's. Were you inspired by this look?








High Top: This style was nothing to be played with. Sometimes ceiling scraping these hightops and gumbies were all the rage. No half stepping there.





Locs: Coming in all shapes and sizes, this natural style is both versatile and well loved.









Cornrows: Not just for kids, cornrows are appearing on the heads of some of today's biggest stars.


 

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Landmark Trial Could Set Precedent for Black Students Tracked to Special Education

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Landmark Trial Could Set Precedent for Black Students Tracked to Special Education

Black parents are often skeptical when their children are placed on a special education track.

Sometimes students legitimately need extra attention, but other times students have been misplaced, often just mischievous and acting out because they are not being challenged academically.

Eight parents in Lower Merion County in suburban Philadelphia have decided to fight on behalf of their children and other African American children they felt were improperly classified as special education or placed in "low-expectation" courses. They filed a class-action lawsuit against their school district three years ago and the trial will begin November 1, 2011.

It is a major achievement because prior to setting a trial date, a judge ruled that each case should be handled individually. But Jennifer R. Clarke, executive director of the Public Interest Law Center, according to the Philadelphia Inquirer, had bigger objectives:


"We want to establish a more objective method of identifying children for special education and also a different way in which children are being tracked into different courses..particularly so early on and particularly in math but also in other courses. We want parents to understand more about the process. And the changes we seek also have to do with how teachers and administrators treat African American kids. We know that if they have high expectations, the students will live up to them, and if they have low expectations, the students will live down to them."


The district defended itself saying that no students have been placed in special education that were not found eligible to receive services and whose parents that did not approve in writing that the services be provided. They also argue they have adopted measures to address the achievement gap, including a Minority Achievement Program that has yielded significant gains in achievement.


But parents say while they are pleased with some of the achievements, they have only provided a band-aid solution to the problem.

If this case sets a precedent for similar cases around the country, maybe it will highlight the problem of black students that are placed in special education and remedial courses without merit - sometimes students that are significantly ahead of their peers but are misunderstood for cultural differences.


 

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VH1's New Reality Shows Revolve Around Black Hollywood Hair and Love In Hip-Hop

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All the major networks started rolling out their new plans for upcoming shows this week at the 2011 Television Critics Association (TCA) winter presentation in Pasadena --- and VH1 has added more reality to their roster.

With 'Beverly Hills Fabulous,' cameras will go behind the scenes of The Elgin Charles Salon -- the only black beauty salon in posh Beverly Hills. Charles, who calls himself 'The Emperor of Hair,' isn't satisfied with his high-profile celebrity clientele. He's on a mission to sell his hair care product line to the masses.

In addition to managing three over-the-top stylists and hitting the best boutiques and restaurants in town, he is also a family man. Former '227' star Jackee Harry is Charles' ex-wife. The couple divorced in 2003, but together are raising their 16 year-old son, Frank, who is also an aspiring football star at Beverly Hills High School.

In addition to launching 'Beverly Hills Fabulous,' VH1 is finally releasing the much-hyped docu-drama 'Love & Hip-Hop,' an eight-part reality show in the same vein as franchise hits 'Basketball Wives' and 'Football Wives.' This time, the significant others of two platinum rap stars and two women trying to make a name for themselves in the male dominated industry share their stories.

Jim Jones' girlfriend, Chrissy Lampkin and Fabolous' girlfriend Emily Bustamante are hoping to get their men to follow Jay-Z's lead and 'put a ring on it,' while two aspiring artists, former G-Unit artist Olivia Longott (pictured) and Somaya 'Boss' Reese are on a quest to be taken seriously as entertainers.

'Beverly Hills Fabulous' and 'Love & Hip Hop' both will premiere on VH1 on March 21.



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    Terrell Owens
    Affiliation: 'The T.O. Show' on VH1
    Side note: Alabama's very own football star simply known as "T.O." -- literally let it all hang out for the photo shoot promoting his new reality series, in July 2009. The show revolves around his life off the field as he searches for love, repair family relationships and make the move from Dallas to Buffalo.

    VH1

    Ray Cunningham
    Affiliation: 'College Hill: Virginia State University' on BET
    Side note: One of the more memorable characters from the Black Entertainment Television network reality ranks, Cunningham has become an openly gay LGBT advocate, budding actor and busy blogger, who was featured in Adam Bouska's groundbreaking NoH8 Campaign, which assembled California notables responding to the state's Proposition 8 ban on same-sex marriage. Cunningham was also cast in acclaimed filmmaker Maurice Jamal's new forthcoming TV project 'Friends and Lovers.'

    Adam Bouska

    Miss New York
    Affiliation:'Flavor of Love' and 'I Love New York' on VH1
    Side note: The upstate New York drama queen competed for hip-hop hype-man Flavor Flav's love twice and was rejected both times.

    MC Hammer
    Affiliation: 'Hammertime' on A&E
    Side note: Stanley Kirk Burrell seems to have done it all: Joined the navy; won Grammy Awards; danced for KFC popcorn chicken; fathered six children; wiggled his manhood in a Speedo bikini on a music video; went bankrupt; became a preacher; and now doing reality TV. 'Hammertime' is a look inside the family life of the man formerly known as one of the riches entertainers of his era.

    A&E

    Keyshia Cole
    Affiliation: 'The Way It Is' on BET
    Side note: In an interview, thuggish ruggish rap icon Young Jeezy claimed that the hip-hop soul songstress asked him to marry her but he turned her down.

    Mo'Nique
    Affiliation: 'Charm School' on VH1
    Side note: While promoting the movie 'Welcome Home Roscoe Jenkins,' Mo'Nique told Oprah Winfrey that co-star Martin Lawrence once gave her invaluable advice about show business.

    Omarosa Manigault-Stallworth
    Affiliation: 'The Apprentice' on NBC and 'The Surreal Life' on VH1
    Side note:The former White House staffer proudly became the superbitch of reality TV.

    Tyra Banks
    Affiliation: 'America's Next Top Model' on UPN and The CW
    Side note: A supermodel of the highest degree, the Inglewood, Los Angeles native sought power behind the scenes and inked a lucrative deal to produce projects for Warner Bros. Television.

    Snoop Dogg
    Affiliation: 'Snoop Dogg's Father Hood' on E!
    Side note: In March 2008, Snoop released his ninth solo album 'Ego Trippin.'

    Harlem Heights
    Affiliation: BET's latest reality show revolving around young, black, urban professionals.
    Side note: Created by MTV industry insiders Randolph Sturrup and Kurt Williamson, the show features a diverse cast of eight young adults from various backgrounds with Harlem as its backdrop.

 

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